Child Arrangements at Christmas: Navigating Challenges and Providing Support
Here at RJS Family Law, we are here to help you through the ups and downs of life’s events and celebrations. We understand that Christmas can be a difficult time for child arrangements, but we are here to support you through the process so that children have a magical Christmas with their families.
The festive season can be a challenging time for separated families, particularly disputes over where children will spend Christmas. This can lead to stress and
conflict between parents. Here’s how we can assist our clients in managing these situations.
Understanding Child Arrangements
Child arrangements refer to the living and contact arrangements for a child following the separation or divorce of their parents. The primary focus in these cases is the welfare of the child, reinforced by legislation such as the Children Act 1989. The court may issue a Child Arrangements Order, specifying where the child will live and how much time they will spend with each parent/ guardian.
Common Issues During Christmas
1. Disagreements Over Holiday Schedules: Parents/ guardians may have conflicting desires about where the child should spend Christmas day.
2. Last-Minute Changes: One parent/ guardian may wish to alter the agreed schedule, causing disruption and stress for the other party
3. High Conflict Situations: Existing tensions can be aggravated during the Christmas season.
How We Can Assist at RJS Family Law
1. Mediation: Encourage clients to consider mediation to resolve disputes amicably. Mediation can help both parties reach an agreement without the
need for prolonged and expensive litigation.
2. Legal Advice: Provide clients with clear legal advice on their rights and options. Understanding the law can help clients make informed decisions.
3. Court Applications: If mediation fails, we can assist clients in applying to the court for a Child Arrangements Order using a C100 form. This order will
legally determine the arrangements for the child, including the Christmas season.
4. Documentation: Advise clients to keep detailed records of any incidents or communications that demonstrate the difficulties they are facing. This
documentation can be crucial if the matter unfortunately goes to court.
5. Focus on the Child’s Welfare: Remind clients that the court’s primary concern is the child’s welfare. Demonstrating that proposed arrangements are
in the best interest of the child will be key in any legal proceedings.
Practical Considerations - What Can You Do?
Holiday Schedule Template: Use a clear and detailed holiday schedule template to outline arrangements. This can include alternating Christmases or splitting the holiday period equally.
Communication: Encourage open and respectful communication between parents to facilitate smoother child arrangements.
Flexibility: Remain flexible and consider the child’s wishes and best interests.
At RJS Family Law, we provide clients with comprehensive support and guidance, to help clients navigate the complexities of child arrangements during Christmas. Our role is to ensure that the child’s welfare remains the paramount consideration, while also supporting our clients in achieving fair and workable arrangements.
Contact Us
For any queries related to how our team at RJS Family Law can assist with navigating Child Arrangements at Christmas, please contact us through our website, where you can also book a free consultation.
